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Ins and outs of sex: out with negativity, in with pleasure

Sex can prove one of the most wonderfully pleasurable, exciting, erotic, fun, loving, expansive and creative parts of what makes us human. Our communities more than others allow the freedom to express ourselves sexually in a way that works for us individually. We are not as constrained as some by the expectations of society. Sex …

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Lil Nas X: music industry like ‘be gay without being gay’

Lil Nas X said on CBS Sunday Morning that the music industry sanitises the sexuality of gay performers. “It’s like, ‘Be gay without being gay’.” The top-selling and multi-award-winning singer/rapper/songwriter said the music industry expects gay performers to tone down their sexuality during performances. “I feel like I’m definitely much more out there with it. …

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Willow Smith believes she could be polyfidelitous

Willow Smith, daughter of Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith opened up about her love life during an appearance on her mother’s Facebook Watch series, Red Table Talk.  18-year-old Willow talked candidly about her equal love for both males and females. The episode focused on unconventional relationships. Willow ensured relevance when she told her mom …


Fellow lesbians, will you join the Vulva-lution?

For years I enjoyed a love-hate relationship with my vulva. It has a large mound and also features voluptuous lips. The amount of hair varies from very bald to el naturale depending on my energy level. The reaction from some sexual partners to a prominent vulva perhaps causes the hate part of the equation. Lesbians …